Thanks all - I'm still very calm, just very sad that his entire focus seems to be on getting away from me as quickly as possible.

Everyone says only an idiot would buy property during a divorce proceeding. My lawyer can't believe it.

Nothing has moved forward on the divorce, although he keeps hinting at a settlement, "before it goes to a judge".

I really don't think he wants that to happen, but I'm afraid once he gets this property, should my lawyer tell me it's okay to sign, that he will start letting things go here. I built up the credit he has today, and he could destroy mine if I am forced to let the house go. The payment on it is almost exactly what I make a month.