Not sure where to start, or end. WAW?

[TimeHeals]

She silently disagrees with me.

Neat trick. Like to hear a recording of that. LOL.

Feels like I'm trying to manipulate with her.

Then just "let her go" (basically stop disagreeing with her and how she feels, etc).

I have to learn to STFU.

Yes, sometimes silence is golden... gives others a chance to speak eventually.

And not talk. And invite her to talk.

That's a contradiction. How are you going to "invite" her without talking? Just let her be... whatever she wants.