Went to meet the teacher with two of the 3 kids today and the wife. We told the teachers to be on the look out for the kids showing signs of stress from the seperation. Its was funny the K4 teacher looked at my why and us after I said I wanted to know of any signs of this affecting him as soon as possible and she looked at my wife and said "oh yes, this will affect him a lot". I could see my wife just shrink. Then we went to the 1st grade teacher and she looked at us and said I would never known by the way you guys act togther. When we walked out I said see honey we can be civil and she said I know we can, and I said no being civil in marriage not seperated and she said I know we can be civil in marriage I was talking seperated. That was about it.
