GF,
Just catching up on the last couple pages of your thread. Very sad that the IL's are such obstacles. Completely relate to that.

Echoing what everyone else said, he needs to hit his own rock bottom. And when he does and looks your way, what will he find?

Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
Responded, now dark
"I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK