That's as much as "real" talking as I think I've ever seen you post, Pigskin.
You maintained your boundaries and didn't back down. You let her know the door was open for her to come back but only under the right circumstances. All well done.
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I told her the paperwork should be coming soon, I'll review it, make any changes, then pass it along to her to determine if we have an agreement.
I have not told my W I have told my L to start on the paperwork. I expect a similar reaction. She thinks we don't need lawyers involved, we can do it ourselves. I'm not comfortable with that. When I asked her this weekend if she had seen one yet, she got pissy and said she had not had time, why was I so concerned about lawyers? I keep thinking that she can't think this can go on for much longer. Then I think; what have I done to let her know that it won't?
This is a great post. There's still some hope. When she's faced with the fact that her fantasy is just that, she doesn't like it. You have owned up to your faults and have become a better man, father, and could be a better husband if she would let you. I know the WAS have fears themselves, but I keep hoping that somewhere, deep down inside, they will realize what they are giving up and can have the courage to try again.
