Take ownership for what you have done, then change it, then DO IT. NO MORE TALK or PROMISES.
Once you have made your changes and have owned your part. YOU need to show STRENGTH by telling her you have apologized and are working on your stuff BUT she needs to OWN hers. NO ONE forced her to CHEAT. 1x 2x....How many times did she ask to go to MC before she cheated?? 2 wrongs do not make a right. I see her at least acknowledging she hurt you, but still she needs to agree not to betray your trust again or it will NEVER work.
I would suggest you GAL, PMA and do your own thing. Be nice. Respectful, present with your son and go find yourself. The worst thing YOU can do is to continue to follow her around like a puppy dog. No offense Puppy
