seems like she has done a lot of things you would expect from a person in MLC.
Zero expectations will help...
You are doing well with the 180's so continue to do that, it has helped your confidence and that is a wonderful thing.
Personally I don't believe in MLC, I think it is an excuse that the LBS gives the WAS to justify the fact that they are being cheated on...
IMO it is like handing over a "get out of jail free" card...
Placing the MLC label on it lets you excuse the extremely destructive behavior they are committing and God forbid they find out you labeled them that, because they will use it to their advantage.
(((Hugs)))
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~