SA, PEI, Taylor and Lin -

Thanks for the comments. They are very helpful.

H texted me to let me know he was meeting S for a snack after school / asked if he had any mail at home / and said that he would go with S to dr.'s appt tomorrow. I have been completely NC for 2 weeks - but I decided to go ahead and text - "Thx for going tomorrow. Will have S bring mail to you" No response - but that's fine.

Was reading another thread here today that talked about once WAS remarries then the ability or rationale ends because the window of opportunity is gone. Is that pretty much the right understanding? I'm ok with that position (at least for now) - but I was just checking.

Lin - you are my success story! I get such comfort from reading your posts! Thank you!


M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years
Ds-24,22/S-18
D - 3/11
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