No, things are going as H planned. H told me yesterday he was thinking if there was any other way out of this M mess, but he still felt that legally separating is best plan.H said too many hurts and he cannot remember any good times. I said a few things, which I shouldn't have, fell into R talk trap. I said maybe a new M is possible. Made H mad.
H has drafted a legal separation agreement. H will take it to a lawyer. He said that I should take it to a lawyer first, but I told him since he initiated the separation, he should have a lawyer review first. I knew it was coming, but it's very very sad. I had hoped H would change his mind. I have to be out of H's home no later than Dec 1st, 2010. I am trying to cope. it's very hard.
