When my H couldn't make the decision to stop talking to OW, I decided it was time to set a boundary.
I told him I could no longer be his friend....and that meant....I no longer wanted to do things together or talk to him on the phone. He was upset and left.
I did not hear from him nor did I contact him.
About 2 weeks later, I received a letter in the mail. It stated my H had purchased a $28,000.00 tractor!!!
He financed $18,000.00!
Needless to say, I was on the phone immediately!
His answer: "YOU TOLD ME NOT TO CALL YOU!!!"
WTF.....Silly me...I didn't explain, if you think you might be purchasing a tractor for $28000.00, I would like to know!!
In hindsight, a better idea would have been to say, contact me with anything pertaining to finances/house/vehicles/kids/pets, but in my case my H would have probably found a loop hole in that too! ~gg.
M55 H55 my D31 H D30 1st met her when she was 25 M 22yrs...2nd for me, 1st for H OW 2005 mother of H daughter, came back to introduce D 1bomb 6/05 2bomb 7/08 3bomb 2/10 moved up north
~gg.
