Yes. She feels that way because I am that way. She feels controlled now because I haven't stopped talking about the R trying to convince her not to leave. That's manipulation no matter how I spin it.
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What work do you need to do?
Man up. Be that knight. Stop worrying about outcomes. Just be the best g'damn man I cann be. Stop trying to fix her, just be there for her and validate.
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Most guys would kill to have a letter like that, it's gold if you can see the value in it. Why be broken, it's how she feels and you need to own up to whatever is vaild in there. I understand it stings, your woman is communicating with you make sure you listen, validate and man up.
Truth be told, I know she has said these things in the past to me, but when she wrote them out they never really had value until now in my heart. I just kept on doing whatver I was doing. More of the same. Time to 180, again.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch
