I come here to read when I am discouraged. I leave with encouragement and hope.
+1. Even though I know and feel that my marriage is no longer sex starved, there are still ocasional issues, but she and I are human and so it helps to luke, read and be inspired, with an ocasional post where I feel emboldened to come out of the shadows.
I have been lurking more and posting less.
>43 years of marriage--My wife and I are now closer than we have been in decades. I believe that my SSM is over.