OW's are not smart enough to do that, TimeHeals. Just ask my H's mistress. My all time favorite was her e-mailing me telling me to "stay away from her boyfriend" LOL! I had not seen or spoken to my H in MONTHS and out of the blue came that little gem. I also thought the photos she sent me of her and my husband were a nice touch.
People who have affairs always "dumb down" when they choose an affair partner.
