Also meant to say that their reality is the consequences of their stupid actions. No-one gets a 'for free' ride when a spouse is in MLC. Everyone they know gets some MLC splatter. And the closer the relationship, the heavier the splatter. Once one knows how to avoid it, things start to look up, and it gets a lot easier, and I think you're at that stage.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
