You can't have everything, where would you put it?

[ClingingToHope]

Mildly annoyed. I called the Small Business Administration to get STBXW included on our disaster loan/second mortgage. She says she has called them and they refuse to deal with her because she's not on the loan.

Well, the SBA emailed me PDFs of the documents with her signature on them and assured me she is on the loan and can discuss changes, etc.

I don't know if she is just lying to me or called the wrong number or what.

So I forwarded the email on to my attorney and STBXW. This was 20 minutes wasted and -- with the letter exchanges between the lawyers -- cost me about $200.

Here's the other thing. It's a 3.25 percent loan. It's the last loan she should touch. She should pay down the primary loan and all of the credit cards she opened and maxed since I moved.

But, hey, she's getting advice from others now.