My UFO (unbelievably fabulous observations)

[BeingMe]

Wii, you are so right. Sometimes the fixing thing is done on a subconscious level. Then slowly we come to realize what we are doing, and that ultimately, we are damaging that person. And worse, they come to realize it too; and they hit the reset button. Think about it; they could've been quite happy as the wallflower and maybe met another happy wallflower, but in swoops a handyman who wants the wallflower to leave the wall; to rip her/himself away from what is comfortable for them. Handymen should stick to other handywomen, and happily fix things around their house, and leave the wallflowers alone. In my humble opinion.

Hmama, you didn't say if Texas guy ever replied to your email. If he has left it this long, I think you know that you're in for another rollercoaster ride, unless you get off and leave. Perhaps, when he is totally ready, he could contact you again, if he feels anything for you. Keeping you hanging on is a disservice to you because you can't move on then.

I am going to be doing a research course next semester, but it's to do with media. I am looking forward to it.

Thinking about you. If you need my tel. nr. to just talk, I can send it through FB.