Thanks Kat, that did send a shockwave through me!

I have pictures of the mess that he has left us in all this time--and now I will document that it is FINALLY after YEARS being done. If he goes for custody I don't think it will look good on him that he has done so little this way for so long--neighbors and such can vouch that he didn't do anything all this time, but certainly was in a financial position to do things.

Wow--I never really thought of him seriously going for custody. I will bring up all the pictures and everything if he tries. It will get ugly--I don't care about anything else but my S14!!