tBart ~ She's as scared and skeptical as you are. You don't have to give her an award for that or anything :), but consider it. Let it inform your compassion - this is a difficult decision/move for her to make. Her stomach flip-flopped and dropped before she finally got the nerve to send the tm about dropping the D. She lost sleep. She second guessed. She gulped and sent the tm. Then she wondered if she had done the right thing.
Been there.
You are absolutely correct about the potential for a new marriage. Two people who go through what y'all have been through, learn what you've learned about yourselves and each other, have such an exciting potential for a phenomenal partnership. Much to be hopeful about.
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Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08