I would only respond as "busy now get back with you later" then never do so. You have acknowledge her attempt to contact you, meaning that you are willing to communicate with her about things other than your D, but you never do, this will get under her skin and she will eventually ask you in person. In person is the only time I would restate your boundary, about being her friend while she is still engaged in her affair. This way you will be able to gage her response.
And I like this alot.
Originally Posted By: Missherlove
stay calm and factual and I would state that "you know what I need in order to have any type of R with you." I think you are communicating that there is a possibility of reconcilliation without saying it.
