My advice would be to "Never accept the first offer."

You are skeptical? Be honest, and SHARE THOSE FEELINGS with your wife. Your position should be "I just don't know anymore."

SLOW AND STEADY.

When you meet, it's "GIVE nothing; EXPECT nothing."

oh, and did I say "SLOW AND STEADY"???

This is a great position to be in, tBart. Don't jump too fast!

Puppy