Don't stress about the funeral. Do what you want to do. Don't decide based on whether it will cause drama. It's not like it's going to change anything either way.
Who cares if they ask questions after you leave? It'll just force him and the family to confront the ugly truth.
The fridge? Do you need one? If so, accept it. Doesn't he owe you thousands in mortgage money? My guess is you aren't going to get any of that back anyway -- or much.
If you think he's giving it to somehow stop the D process then that's another thing.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
