since i can related to the "spoon" incident all too much, i would like to comment on a couple of other things that stand out in your postings:
there are a couple things you wrote, about the hair band and her reaction to you going out and something about your wife wanting to know if there is another woman in the house, that reads like your wife is suspsicous of you having an affair. your lack of "attention to the matter" when she stripped for you doesn't help that. what else have you been doing intentionally or maybe subconsciously that may possibly give her that suspsicion, and reason to freak out on probably her own rubber band and spoon?
your wife said to your previous MC, is it like she has 2 kids to take care of. was she ever more specific about that with you?
you also wrote about your wife saying she feels "smothered" a couple times. your new MC, started right off talking about "wanting to want" and creating a new marriage, to you, does that seem like more "smothering?" did she have any "tips" on how to become better communicators with each other, so incidents like "the spoon" and the same fight every 6 months and the need for you all to "talk" to other people doesn't continue?
