Yes....I've been working the 3rd option as hard as I can! Some days I'm more successful than others.
I know what you mean about the whole child deal. I am so ticked right now that my H is not planning on even going to take our D to college this weekend because he doesn't see the need. Hello - she's going off to live on her own for the first time and he can't go and "be a dad"?!!! I sit here and think I really would be better off with someone who was as adult as I am. BUT... obviously I want to save my marriage or I wouldn't be here. :-(
