Odga-I have been reading your thread and think that you are doing a great job of DBing! You seem to have balance down to a fine art. I think your doing a fine job at this pace -you'll be able to tell when she wants to step it up a notch. Women do tend to like men to be the initiators in sex, so be mindful of the little hints she gives you. I get very frustrated when my H does not act like he desires me. I want to be told I'm sexy and know that he wants me. While too much would push her away, she seems to be communicating to you her feelings, so be mindful of that and also the unspoken which can be very powerful too. And....Good for you for helping your friend realize that there might be an alternative to walking away from his M! Rachael
