I am not avoiding changes, I am not as "short tempered", I think before I speak and I am working on acting instead of reacting to things. I think maybe the W has been with me for 7 years and just feels like I am not who she wants to be with anymore, people grow and change, maybe she fell for me when she was younger and wants something different out of life? I was very reserved about getting involved with someone 10 years my junior. Maybe I am reaping the reason I did not want to do it back then...