There is a 3rd option: it's called DBing and Tough Love! The problem is, it's harder than the other 2 options and you have to have a lot of patience. Not fun!
is this the option you're choosing, sunnyd?
i just don't know. i'm having fun with my life but i'm not trying to act like a 4 yr old. i have to learn how to deal with adult problems. i'm working steadily, trying to build a house, buying the right appliances for the home, thinking from an investment standpoint on what would make a house attractive, etc. in other words .. work hard and play hard. without my h, i have been able to do that.
y'know what's weird? everyone who has asked about my sitch ends up saying "you married a child."
