If you want to have kids some day you need to evaluate your H in the context of fatherhood.. what kind of father would this man make?
sometimes i'm glad we didn't have children. maybe it was a sign.
we tried for 3 yrs and nothing. both healthy. well, i know i was.
i always felt that having kids with him would meaning being a single mom. i couldn't rely on him.
it's like he could burn toast and say i burnt it because i didn't have my morning coffee yet. to me, you don't make excuses. i wake up and i have to be on the ball all the time because he's just never on the ball.
