OK, after all that disjointed stuff, I'm hoping I found a solution to the texts.
If I get another tomoroow, I'm going to say: M:This is three days in a row of stuff not about the divorce or Calla. Why are you telling me this?
Blah,blah,blah
M: "You wanted want a divorce. You are sleeping with someone else. aren't in love with me nor need me in your life. That precludes us from being friends. Google it"
Or
M:This sounds more like stuff for between a husband and wife
or
M:This is your personal life. You said you wanted a divorce and your affair has me agreeing with you. Your personal life isn't part of mine anymore.
DROP THE ROPE, CD!!!!!
CD,
You want to CONVEY this stuff ^, by your ACTIONS.
NOT make "grand pronouncements." Such pronouncements belie the very thought you're trying to convey.
LIVE THE SPIRIT OF ALL OF THOSE OUT by your ACTIONS, every day. Sure, if she ASKS you, "What's the deal with you?" or whatever, and it's in context, you can respond with one of the above that feels authentic to you. But if you text one of those, esp. out of the blue, it will make you appear pursuing.
