Quote: During this first year, (average 1-3 times A DAY!! ) he lost about 70% of all the total hair lost on his head (in the male pattern areas) and grew ALL of his chest hair!!!
LOL! My H grew a lot of chest hair after he met me and we always joked about it being due to "hormone storms" (Of course, it may just have been him finishing puberty, since he was only 22 when I met him ).
Seriously, though, about the testosterone thing - it's rare in guys CJ's age, but not impossible, to have a low testosterone level. Also, he should be checked for thyroid disease, which can cause depression and loss of libido. Also, regular exercise is good for libido and depression, so do you think you could get CJ to join you in some New Year's Resolutions?
(Of course, it may just have been him finishing puberty, since he was only 22 when I met him 
).