It's about damn time I got over here!! Thanks for your posts to my thread.
Doesn't it feel WONDERFUL to pass the DR message along? It's like a high you get when you know you're doing GOOD for someone...whether they take the advice or not...they at least have the CHANCE before it's too late. I had the opp to do that last year with a good old pal of mine...talk about 180's!
I think things are sounding really good for you, O!
The subtle intimacies, the I miss you's...
I agree that the physical side of things is a bit of a tightrope for you to walk...she doesn't want it to be JUST about sex...but DOES want to feel desired (a BIG vote yes on this one from me...but you know what MY sitch is like ).
Whatever you're doing, keep it up!
Shiny
P.S. and yes it was my closing line that brought this to mind.
Ogda, you mention testosterone supplements....CJ has had a low sex drive thing going on for years (he's only 42).
My theory is that he might be a natural low/med drive. He had only two lovers before me (and we got together when he was 29), had never had oral sex , and thus was rather TAKEN with our first year's sexual adventures.
During this first year, (average 1-3 times A DAY!! ) he lost about 70% of all the total hair lost on his head (in the male pattern areas) and grew ALL of his chest hair!!!
I'm thinking this was due to surges of testosterone from this sexual awakening. A couple of years in, however, both his hairl loss and his libido slowed right down.
I know some of it is psychological (since viagra works, when he's willing to take it for the plumbing aspect), but I DO believe there may be a testosterone shortage here too.
Ironic thing is, I'm a high sex drive/ high testosterone woman...and if I didn't take care of it, I'd have the moustache to prove it!
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, and thus was rather TAKEN with our first year's sexual adventures.
