Well I just had an interesting time using a lot of DBing principals with a friend. I went to Dinner with an Attorney friend of mine last Wednesday night and tonight. Seems that he is having lots of problems with his W and all his other friends have been telling him to just leave her and move on. He has a 3 year old son that he dearly loves and she is from S. America and if they split would likely return. He said that I am the only one that has told him to fight for his M. I reviewed alot of the DBing principals and told him of the BB and the support here. He said he was planning on having a serious R talk this Sunday and lay down the law. In talking with him I believe that I showed him that while that might make him feel better in the short run, it would only make her defensive and would drive her further away, possibally beyone the point of no return.
I tried to convence him to just lay low this weekend (tomorrow is her birthday) and make tomorrow and Sunday as plesant as he could and to just read. He borrowed my DR and plans on reading tonight and the rest of the weekend. I also told him to pull up this web page and scan through some of the success stories. I told him that there is no hurry in doing his R talk and that if he really wanted to have the talk that reading DR first would at least help him phrase the talk in the best light possible.
I hope that it works for him and will advise if he startes to post. Meanwhile, if everyone would just give him a little prayer. I know that I will.
