I can't force her out. She's on the mortgage as well as I am. She'll just dig in her heals. And I don't want to leave my home.
You assumed alot there. Enjoy limbo.
So I give her the "It's not working speech, with a 2 week deadline." She doesn't want to move out that quickly, how can I move her out? Pack her stuff up? Be a jerk? She's already complained that she feels I'm kicking her out. I'm trying to be assertive with her, but other than me leaving my house, which I won't do, I don't see any alternative.
So in order to get her out in 2 weeks I should:
1. Tolerate her foot-dragging and hope she decides to move by then. 2. Physically move her stuff out, change the locks, etc. 3. Be firm in our discussions, with nothing to back them up however. 4. Move out myself, risking a charge of abandonment which will hurt my chances at custody.
