I didn't realize what you were thinking on the divorce. I said before that your words on this board led me to believe you wanted the divorce. (at first). When I directly asked you, then I understood that you didn't want it.
So if you do not want a divorce my suggestion again is to take no action towards that goal. My guess is that he will also take no action towards it either. He needs your help to push him through to that goal. I would not give him that help.
