But isn't that the same with asking her about divvying up possessions?
Who's possesion's are they? Wouldn't you have a say in what you get?
She wants out. What needs to happen on your end to make that happen?
"I have decided that this isn't working for me. You have 2 weeks to find a place to stay. Here is our visitation schedule and the financial agreement. We will need to seperate furniture and other household items. I will work on that Saturday, I would like you to help if you don't help then my choices stand."
You say you want out of limbo then get busy.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.