Originally Posted By: Coach
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Then I should listen to her? Just validate? That seems pretty manipulative. Trying to control her.


How is listening and validating controlling or manipulative?

Asking her if you should put the deposit down is controlling and manipulative. That's not your business.


Agreed about the deposit. Looking back, I was trying to get some type of response.

But isn't that the same with asking her about divvying up possessions?