Then I should listen to her? Just validate? That seems pretty manipulative. Trying to control her.
How is listening and validating controlling or manipulative?
Asking her if you should put the deposit down is controlling and manipulative. That's not your business.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
