Soleil, I shouldn't complain. I can remember before this happened to me thinking about a co-worker who was still a mess after two years "why doesn't she just get on with her life! Isn't two years long enough to get over this" I had no emotional comprehension of her pain, although intellectually I understood it hurt. I didn't realize that it was a trauma, one of the biggest you'll ever experience. So, I probably wasn't there the way I would be now. Maybe that is part of God's plan, because of this pain we can now walk alongside others who are going through it and truly understand their pain. Didn't Paul say that in Romans?
