I don't have much in the way of advice, I'm still new here too. I just wanted to say that I'm sorry you find yourself here, however from what I've been reading you will get a lot of great advice!
Me: 24 H: 26 2 SS: 7 & 5; D: 3 H filed D papers: 8/2/10 OW discovered: 08/10 D papers counter-filed: 10/2/10 There is no method to my madness
