If this is the route you want to go (and I'm still unsure as to whether or not she's really "trying"), then just DO the things you state above . . . don't SAY them.
Men who lead, lead thru ACTION ... not thru WORDS.
Puppy
Thanks for keeping me from making a monumental mistake
So, if I were to DO that, should I just go home and tell her that we have a MC session for XYZ date?
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch