I need to focus on this. I do feel sometimes I am giving too much, but I have thrown an alternative out there compared to the D, she has a few weeks to think about it, if she doesnt jump at it her loss. While she is thinking I will focus on the friendly and corial side, without being a doormat. Im sure I will have to put my foot down at times and also set some boundaries. But things will move forward in either direction which I have no control over. The only thing I can control are my actions, which is what I need to focus on.
