Well, guys. I did it. I deleted all of the texts from stbx yesterday. At first I was deleting 1 and 2 here and there and then finally I just hit "delete all." That was a huge thing for me.
Spy, I am going with the L I found. Going to meet w/ him today and he said he will include something saying stbx will be responsible for legal fees.
Q: are legal fees just the D fees or the entire L thing?
Romeo, I have called a gazillion L places and NONE of them offered a free consulation, all $200 and upwards (closer to $300 actually just for the consult).
The "Divorce by bed and board" is hilarious (the way stbx filed). Truly amazing that it means I cannot remarry. Totally getting that revised to say "Divorce from the bond of matrimony."
Gosh darn. The day we got married... I never ever thought I'd be here now.
