This is the part I hate most of all with our sitch right now and what H is modeling to his boys: I feel I have to do damage control the best I can and it pisses me off that H isn't man enough to do the right job himself! I think about my brother - my uncle - my father: all GREAT men who would never dream of doing these things to their families... It's just a da*n shame I married someone so unlike these other great men in my life.
Bring a relative in to take teh boys out... If H asks tell him that the boys need a positive male role model and walk away
