Why are we all on the infidelity forum? Shouldn't there be a forum for husbands who were not raised properly?
I'm with peachy - there has got to be a third option. To leave or to tough it out are both extremes. There just has to be a third option.
When my h said that he didn't have confidence in my ability to handle motherhood, the first thing that came to mind was "taking care of h is like taking care of a child already!".
I don't know what to do. I don't have kids but I really don't want to hear someone say "well, you're young and have no kids. It's easy to start over and find someone else.". I'm not interested in another relationship.
LOL: I know!!! The thing is, the reason they are unfaithful IS because they weren't raised properly!
There is a 3rd option: it's called DBing and Tough Love! The problem is, it's harder than the other 2 options and you have to have a lot of patience. Not fun!
