Boy all my long time friends are still around. (Almost said old friends).
I made a mistake... the reunion is not until NEXT weekend (21st) so there still is time… W is in charge of our finances and I really think she is thinking of a way of making it happen. But money is getting REAL short. There was a mistake on my Unemployment check. Here in California things are so bad that when you call their office all you get is a recorded message. Not even a "for English press 1" But the guy at my TAA program. (School grant becasue my job went overseas) gave me a special phone number to call and I get right in. They fixed it and my next check should be ok but we still had to borrow $500.00 from MIL to make our mortgage payment this month. Even with money short wife is trying to rebuild son's computer. Thanks to my schooling I did find that she did not do something’s right. I found that in the past I would have acted more like a parent to her telling her what she did wrong. But this time I just filled in the blanks for her and then praised her for what a great job she did. Things I try to keep in mind: When dealing with your spouse... do not take them for granted. Do not say or do anything to them that you would not do to a stranger. The same goes for your kids. Treat them like you do their friends. Well its 4:00am need to get some last minute homework done before school. 1/2 Day today then Lunch with my W.. . (And son )
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know