SA is right. I found from my step-son that he refused to take his family on vacation with H & OW, told him that he was married to me and it wasn't right, and wouldn't involve his kids in it. H didn't call him for over a month!

Son #2 hasn't spoken to him since February, and Son #1 only sporadically. He has contact with only one of our daughters, and that is sporadically. I think it is wearing on him, and would eventually with anyone.

ME: 54
Him: 51
M: 20 years T: 21 years
OW/New wife: 36
Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36)
Bomb: March 4, 2010
He Filed: April 28, 2010
I Contested: May 1, 2010
Standing Down: 11/24/10
Divorced : 05/04/2011