You are completely right! I can definitely see what you are saying and it resonates with me ~ I am doing this right now for self-preservation. For the past 7 months it has felt like I've taken hit after hit ~ those hits have reduced significantly since NC. Like I've said before - he knows where I stand, who I am, what I am, what I believe and right now it is not what he wants. The rest is up to him.
I am currently working on increasing my stamina and attention to get my finances in order and to do some short-term planning. In addition - I must tackle the basement and I definitely want to have a picture book put together of our 25 years for me and the kids to celebrate in September.
Here we go:) - Thank you!
M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years Ds-24,22/S-18 D - 3/11 A Day at a Time