With me at the funeral and staying for everything, no one would ask a question. They know we are separated so that is not a problem. The problem is if I were to leave. Then everyone would ask questions because I am at all the family functions. This would be huge to have me not stay and that would cause questions, especially because it is S's weekend with H and the family NEVER sees S without me. So my question is do I go to the after funeral family stuff and not have to worry about questions, or do I not go and have some people ask just because they will wonder where I am at?
With the frig some of my family said I shouldn't take it because it could harm the D process. Because he is buying me such a huge item, it could negatively affect the D settlement. I still don't know, but if H brings it up again I will decide then.
Very tired because I am trying to get up early. I am also having some strange pains on the side that I hurt when I fainted so I am a little worried about that. I think it is a muscle thing and got irritated from me lifting S, moving stuff in my room, etc. Just over doing it because I hurt the muscle pretty bad, but still something I am worried about.
Me29 S3 H left 4/1/09 I file 8/2/10 Divorce final 5/17/11 1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52 2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg 3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89
