Well how about this - choosing to make today a positive day works -
C just called me (very unusual for her to call in the AM) and we talked for about 10 minutes - very fun conversation. It will be my 1st positive for tomorrow over coffee. I know that I will add several more to my list.
Oops forgot you were a lawyer--Deb's post---I didn't mean to bad mouth her lawyer, okay maybe I did. You're right though it's a business and what a lawyer does...
Odga, I want to second, that I didn't mean to be down on all Att! I value your advice. At least with you I don't have to worry that when you say something it is for the money! LOL
Your attitude is great! You're my inspiration and boost my PMA by reading your posts, I needed a boost today!
Have a great Dinner! Will check up on you in the morning!
had to come visit you odga - it's so hard to remember at times that you are even divorced, your positives are so wonderful
thank you for being who you are, thank you for the constant reminders on how important it is to post your positives, and thanks for the shots in the arm
Pam, Loved one, Cathy, Deb and Kitty - She came over for dinner - we went to a Japanese steak house (the kind where they bring the food to the table and cook it in front of you) good food and also good entertainment. Then went back to my place and just sat on the couch and talked and snuggled some. (no TV) After a bit we went to the bedroom to show her some of the gifts I had gotten for some of my family. We then just sat on the bed and talked and cuddled some more.
While we were sitting on the bed and facing each other with our lips about a whisker away from kissing she asked me if I missed her. (Well, duh...) I said that I missed her very much and gave her a kiss. I then asked her if she missed me and she immediately started nodding her head then said, That is a yes. After another kiss, I asked her what we were going to do about it. She said she did not know. We kinda dropped that topic for then. I don’t want to push to much.
We talked some more and she had to go - she is leaving tomorrow morning early and still needed to pack. We kissed several times then she left. Told her to call me when she got home.
She called me later and said she had stopped by a department store to get some things on the way home. She thanked me for Dinner and a good time. I thanked her for asking me if I missed her. (I did not ask for an answer to my question) She said that sometimes she feels guilty about not going all the way when we are together. I asked her what she meant (like I didn’t know, but I wanted more details) and she said that she sometimes feels guilty if we don’t ML (that was the words I wanted her to say)- I told her that tonight, even though we did not have sex, we did ML. We ML through our cuddling, kissing, holding hands, etc. I told her that you don’t have to do one to do the other, although it is very nice when we do both at the same time. And that I just treasured our time together, and take each day, one day at a time. I told her to really have a good time this weekend with her GF and to be careful and to come back to me safe.
She is coming back on Sunday around 8. I will take the puppy back to her place and meet her when she gets back. She said if I needed to leave the puppy at the house earlier, he could stay in the house alone til she gets home. I told her that while bringing him back was one of the goals on Sunday, I really wanted to be there when she got back and to welcome her home.
In all I think it was a great night. We had a great meal, good company, lots of cuddling and some great kisses and hugs. AND she said she missed me. ---- Yes, a really great night.
reviewing my positives from yesterday with my morning coffee
1. C called me first thing yesterday morning and we talked for about 10 minutes over coffee 2. several nice IM from C throughout the day yesterday 3. She came over for dinner early 4. We really enjoyed our meal and time together she held my arm while walking to and from the car 5. had a great time just talking when we got back to my apt. 6. she asked me if I missed her 7. She said YES when I asked if she missed me 8. Coffee is good this morning (as usual)
Cathy 
