I sometimes see people post things about waiting to see if there spouse will proceed with the divorce...sorry if I don't understand. My husband had me served and I thought i had no choice then to find my own lawyer. Is this not the case ? How do I stall things, to slow it down ?
I have a suport court date in October, should I keep this or keep things as they are for as long as possible ?

I really feel I have no idea what I am doing and what I should be doing ? I feel so lost. and I guess after my husband was here last night and tell me he doesnt think my lawyer is giving me the right advice, it leaves me wondering more and more.

Me:43
H:43
T:20 YRS
M:15 YRS
Bomb: 6/9/08
Bomb#2 7/6/10
Served with papers at work 7/13/10
DD:14, DD:11