yes chuck, that is where I get in between the fences. I am dealing with a W who has said that she has felt neglected. So I am dealing with trying to include her, but not beg she gets one invite if she doesnt want to go, then I dont ask her again. I am trying to be friends again, without being a doormat.
W just waved me upstairs cuz, D got out of bed and curled up and fell asleep in the hallway. I asked the W if she got a second wind, she said she felt like soaking in the bath, I told her I had work to do, you can use the big bath in the master, up to you, and walked away. She started the bath upstairs.
Again I am trying to just be cordial. I do feel for the sake of our kids and if there is any hope I need to be friendly. I feel that is part of the DBing, If I am not that way, then she will think i am not moving on, or acting as if. Can someone repost robx thread?
This is essential. Why would she want to stay with someone spiteful, vindictive or mean? You're doing well.
